No two marriages are alike, and making the decision to walk away is an intensely personal choice. Having said that, some common signs exist that could forecast the fact that someone is going to broach the topic of divorce. Once the decision is made to end the marriage, New Jersey residents may benefit from taking certain steps to prepare for the future.
In some cases, the parties have realized that their efforts to fix their issues are just not working. One or both parties have come to the realization that there is no fixing the problem. Sometimes, two people are simply not meant to be together for the rest of their lives.
When a marriage is not working, it can be difficult to envision a future together. It may be safe to say that if the parties do not have the same vision of their future, it may be time to consider parting ways. For instance, one partner may want to have children, but the other does not. Both parties deserve the opportunity to find the future they envision for themselves, and sometimes, it is not with each other.
Of course, the issue of whether to have children is not the only one that can put a couple at opposite ends of the spectrum. Regardless of the reasons, when a New Jersey couple realizes that they would be happier apart than together, it may be time to divorce. More often, couples are deciding to end their marriages on friendlier terms.
The divorce process does not have to be acrimonious. Working together to come to a settlement and parting as friends may be becoming the norm rather than the exception. Negotiating a settlement together allows the parties to maintain control over how their marriage ends and how they will start their separate lives. Reaching a fair and equitable agreement can be the last gift the couple gives each other -- after all, at one time, they were in love and expected to spend their lives together.
Source: huffingtonpost.com, "How to Know When It's Possibly Time to Get a Divorce", Jennifer Twardowski, May 27, 2015