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Handling child custody when parents don't get along

Taking care of children is hard enough in today's world, even for parents who are married to one another. When two parents are not in a relationship, that can complicate matters, particularly if the two parents do not get along. Even so, there are still ways for parents who dislike one another to successfully co-parent. Experts have advice for New Jersey parents who may have difficulty handling child custody in this situation. According to professionals, it is not necessary for two parents to like one another in order to share custody, but they must decide to put their children first.

The best thing a parent can do is to examine exactly why he or she doesn't get along with the other parent. If the parent still has negative feelings because of a romantic relationship gone bad between the two parties, he or she will have to put that aside in order to co-parent. However, if the parent has issues with how the other parent treats him or her, boundaries will need to be created and enforced. Some parents find it easier if they use a neutral party to communicate with the other parent.

If the anger stems from how the other parent treats the children, that may be a bigger problem. If one parent is constantly backing out on planned meetings and disappointing the children, the other parent will have to stay neutral. It may be tempting to criticize the other parent to the child, but experts say that supporting the child and giving him or her space to vent is the better choice. If the other parent is being abusive in any way toward the children, it may be best to revisit the original custody agreement or even consider a restraining order.

There is no question that dealing with any kind of child custody arrangement can be tricky. However, it is possible for New Jersey parents to handle a co-parenting agreement even when they dislike the other parent. If there are any issues that the two parties simply cannot agree upon, it may be best to involve an experienced family law attorney.

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