Heymann & Fletcher
March 10, 2022

5 Tips for Successful Divorce Mediation

Practice Area: Family Law | Tag: Divorce

Couple in Mediation

Divorce is a complex and challenging time. However, mediation can be the right fit for couples looking to avoid a complex and time-consuming litigation. Divorce mediation not only helps to reduce animosity between two parties, but it also aims to finalize the divorce as quickly as possible. To help you increase your chances of successful divorce mediation, keep these five important tips in mind.

Understand Your Priorities

One of the most important things to remember about divorce mediation is your priorities for yourself and your family. Mediation seeks to find a balance between the two sides, so you must also evaluate where you are willing to be flexible. This will allow your lawyer to understand the settlement options available and make the process go more smoothly, which brings us to our next point.

Be Ready to Compromise

Unlike traditional litigation or trial, which focus on winning, mediation is about getting the best outcome for both parties. This takes, you guessed it, compromise. While you will have your priorities, you should also be willing to find a middle ground with your ex. Pick your battles carefully!

Separate Your Emotions

Divorce can be a highly emotional time, but it is vital to put your emotions and hurt feelings aside during mediation. Doing this will prevent your feelings from interfering with your settlement, ensuring you can have the most beneficial outcome.

Be Prepared to Attend More than Once

The more issues that arise during the mediation process without resolve will cause your divorce to take longer. Sometimes you might need to take a break and hold multiple sessions over time, so be prepared for the process to take longer than you may wish or anticipate.

Be Open-Minded

When entering divorce mediation, you should make sure that you keep an open mind and do your best to take care of your own mental and physical health. Things are not always black and white, so be open to creative suggestions from your mediator. The end goal is to reach an agreement you’re both happy with. Stay positive and focus on what you want for your future.

Need help with your divorce mediation? If you’re going through a divorce in NJ and are considering mediation, contact Stephen Fletcher today for your free consultation.